All images in this article are by Vuvu Vena
The main house is filled with children’s voices and the outside house smells of fresh, new life. Walking around to where the babies are cared for, she mentions that some of them are taking their afternoon nap. Before the door opens a number of toys and a bright desk and benches are laid out on what seems like a play area. On the side of the door is a sign that reads: Baby Haven.
“We are Christian and Pastors, so we thought we’d make a difference. We didn’t want to tell our children that we didn’t do anything,” said Caroline Webb.
Caroline Webb and her husband, David Webb are a couple from the East Coast of the United States of America and the founders of Baby Haven. They founded Baby Haven in 2003.
The first baby was found thrown in a dump across the street from a clinic in Dobsonville on the September, 1, 2003. In the morning a man found the baby crying, and took her to the clinic. The nurses said she was like a frozen chicken.
Baby Haven has been a home for about 30 children since it opened it’s doors to that first baby. Mostly new borns and at times a few months old. At present there are seven babies at Baby Haven, four boys and three girls. One of the baby boys was found in a bin in a settlement.
“My husband and I have always felt we wanted to make a difference in the HIV/AIDS orphan crisis, and we had been to Africa before and we thought we could help in a small way,” she said.
Baby Haven is a place of safety and a foster home. Some of the children return to their families. They stay for about eight weeks while the police investigate the child’s situation. Only when there is no family for the child do they get placed in foster care.
A story presented by Ruda Landman on Carte Blanche Interactive last year spoke of international and local adoptions. It indicated that adoption of South Africans by South Africans is very low, only 2000 children found local adoptive parents in South Africa in 2005.
It said that 54 000 children were fostered in South Africa in 2005. Landman said “Infertility is becoming more and more of a problem in prosperous communities, and the search for babies for adoption is becoming ever more desperate. Here in South Africa some white couples are prepared to go quite literally to the ends of the earth to find their bundle of joy.” The story then continued with the different cases on international adoptions.
Caroline said, “The law says that for a child in foster care the parents have up to two years to find a home for the child and their only responsibility during that time is to visit the child once a year. So some children are in limbo. But a lot have been adopted, about more than half of the ones we have cared for.”
Baby Haven is not an adoption agency, adoption occurs through government social workers when parental rights have been savoured. A number of people volunteer to take care of the babies, some volunteers are local and others are international. Most of them are part of the church that the Webbs attend.
David and Caroline have adopted a young girl of their own. “She came when she was seven, we adopted a seven year old girl who was orphaned, she is turning 12 soon,” said Caroline.
It is difficult for the volunteers and for the Webbs to let go of the babies that they care for, especially the ones that stay longer, she said. “It’s hard for the people…But we know that we’ve helped one child that is in crisis get to a family. If we can be a help in this crisis, then we feel before God it is our duty.”
The babies are found in hospitals, dumps, under bridges, and in long-drops. Those that have been found abandoned in hospitals have been for a number of reasons. Either the mother died after birth, or she was HIV positive or she couldn’t cope with having another child, said Caroline.
It is written on the Constitutional Court of South Africa website that: Children need special protection because they are among the most vulnerable members of society. They are dependent on others – their parents and families, or the state when these fail – for care and protection.
Section 28 of the Bill of Rights, entitled “Children”, says: that every child has the right to a name and citizenship. Child in this context refers to any person under the age of 18. They also have the right to family or parental care, or to appropriate alternative care when removed from the family environment.
They have the right to basic nutrition, shelter, basic health care services and social services. There are other laws besides the bill of rights that protect children, from things like domestic violence, neglect and child pornography.